Etiquette
A polite introduction and the utmost respect is mandatory for passing the initial screening process with me. 
When contacting me you should provide detailed information about yourself, especially if you have health or other concerns.
No blocked numbers or false information because your background and references will be checked. Avoid sexual connotations. Anything regarding Sex is a red flag for me.
You already know what you are paying for! Treat your communications as simply a request for my time. In other words, conduct yourself as you would for a Doctor or other type of appointment.
Make sure you understand what services I offer. Here I am detailing my specific policies, read and respect them. During the actual appointment you do need to make sure you communicate
what you want - otherwise you might end up dissapointed.Be discreet. If you are going to a private residence, ask for instructions on how to get in. 
Don’t use my name when calling an intercom, announce yourself only. In hotels, do not ask concierges or other staff anything about me. 
If there is a problem or you need to ask a question, go back to your car or leave the hotel and call on the phone. 
Don’t call me from a hotel lobby, in the street outside my flat or any other situation which might put mine (and your) privacy at risk.
 
If you have any allergies: animals, scents, etc - make sure you tell me. If you have an aversion to tobacco smoke or smokers you probably want to check that too.
 
If I am visiting your home or hotel room, ensuring it is clean and tidy is a good way to start an appointment.
 
Don’t ask about my personal life or my professional activities, if I volunteer information, fine. 
Use common sense. In the same way, change the subject if you are asked questions you are not prepared to answer. 
It is also best to avoid discussing other escorts as this type of gossip can have unpleasant results.
 
Donations
In most cases you will be expected to provide your donation at the start of the appointment. Your donation should be placed in a gift card or envelope and 
within the my view from your entrance. I do not enter any room until I see this card/envelope! Never hand me your donation!! Never!! I will not take it from you and I will immediately leave!
 
Don’t try to negotiate the amount of the donation on arrival, in this case you should expect to be asked to leave. 
Assume rates are non-negotiable unless there is good reason to assume otherwise and you negotiate in advance. 
If you are extending the period, you can politely discuss how much more you should donate but don’t automatically assume you will be offered a discount.
 
Respect the time period you have booked. I do not like to have to ask you to leave and I will not ‘watch the clock’. 
However, you are ‘buying time’ and shouldn’t expect anything for free so respect what you agreed in advance.
 
If you have to cancel an appointment, do so as far in advance as possible. If you changed your mind, just tell me - it does happen. 
Don’t make appointments and then not turn up as this is just rude.
 
Don’t make promises you are not going to keep, whether it is for a future appointment, gift or review. 
You don’t owe me anything more than the donation and there’s no need to promise anything else. Better to be straightforward.
 
Personal hygiene
You should approach visiting me in the same way you would for going on a date. 
Take a shower before the appointment or at the start of the appointment.
Trim your nails and toenails; no-one likes getting scratched.
Trimming or shaving any areas you might want licked or kissed, as this shows that you might like this to happen. 
Leaving areas hairy may well act as a signal that you don’t expect this.
Don’t use cologne, deodorant or perfume on any area that you might expect to be licked or sucked.
Mouthwash or chewing gum is often appreciated, as is staying away from strongly smelling foods, such as garlic, onions or curry.
Don't piss in the shower (apparently this happens a lot and is really not appreciated by many professionals).
If you need to take a shit, do it before you get there - leaving a bad smell or worse is not a great way to start or end a session. 
You are visiting what is a place or residence or work (or both), treat it respectfully.
 
Sexual Health
Unprotected sex with an escort is a very stupid idea. If you are still feeling dumb, don't ask for it unless I explicitly offer the service.
 
Don’t brush your teeth within 30 minutes of the start of an appointment. Small abrasions on the gums and mouth can increase the risks from STDs.
 
Shave any genital areas the day before any appointment, small nicks and cuts are common and this is again a risk-factor for STDs.
 
Bring condoms with you just in case and these should be in a sealed, unopened box. Normally, I will provide these and expect you to use them. 
If you have any specific requirements or allergies, you might want to clear this in advance.
 
 
Staying out of trouble
Make sure you are aware of the law regarding prostitution wherever you are. You then need to try and find out how it is enforced. 
The oldest profession in the world had survived pretty much every legal attempt to prohibit it, but this doesn’t mean you can’t get in trouble for kerb-crawling in some places.
 
 
Common sense - use it!
Don't do stupid things or expect me to do so:
 
If you are not sure you should be doing this or thinking about this, don't do it.
Always treat providers like human beings (they are and never forget that)
Make sure you know local laws and don't get arrested
Don't do anything which feels uncomfortable - if you feel uncomfortable or in danger, leave immediately
Be careful!
 
 
 

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